• April 16, 2018

When you begin to learn who a person is, you should always start with the sad truths. Of course, when you are meeting someone for the first time that may seem a bit rash because this is a complete stranger and why on earth would you want to start on the wrong foot, thus making a terrible first impression?

But that is not what I mean; you see when meeting somebody for the first time you then begin to concoct all these hopeful things and scenarios that everything could work out just dandy. Having faith in someone is earned and harnessed through positive energy; but hope…now that is a tricky one.

Hope is not rational, hope is not fair; hope is fable with a 1:5 ratio for a chance at a good outcome. The chances aren’t so vivid. That’s not to say it is a total failure if this hope does not prosper, no….it just means the hopes of something perfect isn’t quite perfect.

Anyways, what I was meaning to get at is that when you’re learning who a person is, it is in the behavior, as well as the manner, in which this person approach you with.

And you see here….when it comes to confronting not so pretty truths, it is easy for them or even you or I to get defensive because hell, who likes to be accused?

But it is indeed these instances that define you as a person. Your capability to listen and understand and think so that compromises or solutions can be made. Those to me are defining factors of who you are as a person.

Someone who Is willing to face the music and work or someone who is ready to walk away, without a single spec of consideration for said issue.

It’s not that simple but I swear, it isn’t so complicated either.